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題名 遠距戀愛的信任
作者 尤漪薇
貢獻者 黃厚銘
尤漪薇
關鍵詞 遠距戀愛
親密關係
信任
反思性
互動
日期 2005
上傳時間 14-Sep-2009 13:23:16 (UTC+8)
摘要 「遠距戀愛」或許不是當代所獨有的現象,但不可否認,因為社會條件、環境改變已促使遠距戀愛發生的可能性高於以往。「遠距」使得這群人有著不同一般戀愛相處的模式,到底距離對親密關係的影響為何?這是筆者所欲釐清的。
     
     或許,即時的視迅、便捷的E-Mail、較以往便宜的國際電話、甚至是免費網路電話…這些現代科技對當代的遠距戀愛助益非淺。人們利用這些科技,試圖克服實體距離所帶來的影響,這也是當代遠距戀愛與以往遠距戀愛最大的差異,它使得人們在維持遠距戀愛上,似乎有更多成功的機會!
     
     但如果深入觀察,遠距戀愛者似乎仍有諸多的不安,其中比較特殊的是人們對「近水樓台」的擔憂,人們為何產生這樣的擔憂?以及人們不斷強調信任對遠距戀愛的重要性,亦即信任作為化解不安的重要環節,裡面的內涵為何?不過,本文的討論並不僅止於探討遠距戀愛中信任的作用,而是,當物理距離已經是既存的前提時,這些遠距戀愛的情人在有意無意中,到底運用了什麼技巧,使彼此在互動過程中,以增進信任的意願、減低誤信的機率。另外,本論文引用Goffman的理論並結合本研究的經驗分析,目的在深入討論信任互動的過程。
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Barthes, R.(2002)。戀人絮語(Fragments d`un discours amoureux)(汪耀進、武佩榮譯)。台北:桂冠。(原作出版年1977)
Bauman, Z.(2003). Liquid Love : on the Frailty of Human Bonds. Cambridge:Polity Press.
Bauman, Z.(2003).現代性與矛盾性(Modernity and Ambivalence)(劭迎生譯)。北京:商務。(原作出版年1991)
Beck, U. & Beck-Gernsheim, E.(2000)。愛情的正常性混亂(Das Ganz Normale Chaos der Lieb )(蘇峰山、魏書娥、陳雅馨譯)。台北:立緒。(原作出版年1990)
Beck, U.(2004)。風險社會(Risikogesellschaft )(汪浩譯)。台北:巨流。(原作出版年1986)
Beck, U., Giddens, A. &Lash, S.(2001)。自反性現代化(Reflexive Modernization)(趙文書譯)。北京:商務。(原作出版年1997)
Brittany, S.(2004). The effects of distance on intimacy, passion and commitment in romantic relationships in college students.
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Couch, L.L. & Jones, W.H.(1997). Measuring levels of trust. Journal of Research in Personality,31(3),319-336.
Dainton, M. & Aylor, B.(2001). A Relational Uncertainty Analysis of Jealousy, Trust, and Maintenance in Long-Distance versus Geographically Close Relationships’. Communication Quarterly, 49(2),172-188.
Gerstel, N.& Engel, H. E. (1982).Commuter Marriages: A Review. The Haworth Press.選集
Giddens, A.(2002)。現代性與自我認同(Modernity and Self-Identity)(趙旭東、方文譯)。台北:左岸。(原作出版年1991)
Giddens, A.(2003)。親密關係的轉變(The Transformation of Intimacy)(周素鳳譯)。台北:巨流。(原作出版年1992)
Giddens, A.(2004)。社會的構成(The Constitution of Society: Outline of the Theory of Structuration)(李康、李猛譯)。台北:左岸。(原作出版年代1984)
Goffman, E.(1959).The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life.New York:Anchor Books.
Goffman, E.(1969). Strategic Interaction. PA:University of Pennsylvania Press.
Goffman, E.(1992)。日常生活中的自我表演(The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life)(徐江敏、李姚軍譯)。台北:桂冠。(原作出版年代1959)
Guldner, G..T.(2004). Long-distance Relationships: The Complete Guide. CA: JFMilne.
Haas, D.F.& Deseran, F.A.(1981). Trust and Symbolic Exchange.Social Psychology Quarterly, 44(1 ),3.
IlIouz, E.(1999). The Lost Innocence of Love:Romance as a Postmodern Condition. In Featherstone, M.(Ed.), Love and Eroticism(pp.161-186).London:SAGE.
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描述 碩士
國立政治大學
社會學研究所
91254017
94
資料來源 http://thesis.lib.nccu.edu.tw/record/#G0912540171
資料類型 thesis
dc.contributor.advisor 黃厚銘zh_TW
dc.contributor.author (Authors) 尤漪薇zh_TW
dc.creator (作者) 尤漪薇zh_TW
dc.date (日期) 2005en_US
dc.date.accessioned 14-Sep-2009 13:23:16 (UTC+8)-
dc.date.available 14-Sep-2009 13:23:16 (UTC+8)-
dc.date.issued (上傳時間) 14-Sep-2009 13:23:16 (UTC+8)-
dc.identifier (Other Identifiers) G0912540171en_US
dc.identifier.uri (URI) https://nccur.lib.nccu.edu.tw/handle/140.119/32201-
dc.description (描述) 碩士zh_TW
dc.description (描述) 國立政治大學zh_TW
dc.description (描述) 社會學研究所zh_TW
dc.description (描述) 91254017zh_TW
dc.description (描述) 94zh_TW
dc.description.abstract (摘要) 「遠距戀愛」或許不是當代所獨有的現象,但不可否認,因為社會條件、環境改變已促使遠距戀愛發生的可能性高於以往。「遠距」使得這群人有著不同一般戀愛相處的模式,到底距離對親密關係的影響為何?這是筆者所欲釐清的。
     
     或許,即時的視迅、便捷的E-Mail、較以往便宜的國際電話、甚至是免費網路電話…這些現代科技對當代的遠距戀愛助益非淺。人們利用這些科技,試圖克服實體距離所帶來的影響,這也是當代遠距戀愛與以往遠距戀愛最大的差異,它使得人們在維持遠距戀愛上,似乎有更多成功的機會!
     
     但如果深入觀察,遠距戀愛者似乎仍有諸多的不安,其中比較特殊的是人們對「近水樓台」的擔憂,人們為何產生這樣的擔憂?以及人們不斷強調信任對遠距戀愛的重要性,亦即信任作為化解不安的重要環節,裡面的內涵為何?不過,本文的討論並不僅止於探討遠距戀愛中信任的作用,而是,當物理距離已經是既存的前提時,這些遠距戀愛的情人在有意無意中,到底運用了什麼技巧,使彼此在互動過程中,以增進信任的意願、減低誤信的機率。另外,本論文引用Goffman的理論並結合本研究的經驗分析,目的在深入討論信任互動的過程。
zh_TW
dc.description.tableofcontents 摘□要□……………………………………………………………1
     
     第一章□緒論
     第一節□研究問題□ ………………………………………………2
     第二節□研究動機 ………………………………………………6
     第三節□理論概念的澄清□……………………………………… 13
     第四節□研究方法□ ……………….…………………………… 20
     
     第二章□遠距戀愛之處境與擔憂
     第一節□毓Z戀愛之處境□ ..………...……………………………26
     第二節□毓Z戀愛對「背叛」的擔憂 …………………………… 40
     
     第三章□遠距戀愛信任之概述
     第一節□H任在遠距戀愛中扮演的角色 ……………………… 47
     第二節□H任之面向□ ………………………………………… 52
     第三節□面對信任的風險  ………………………………… 59
     
     第四章□毓Z戀愛的信任互動
     第一節□W進信任的互動  ……………………………………… 64
     第二節□謏C誤信的互動□ ……………………………………… 79
     
     終章□結論
     第一節□回顧前文□K…………………………………………… 94
     第二節□高度反思性的現代 ……………………………………101
     第三節□筆者之反思V.S結語 ……………………………… 104
     
     附件□□………………………………………………………… 107
     
     參考書目 …………… ……………………………………… 108
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dc.language.iso en_US-
dc.source.uri (資料來源) http://thesis.lib.nccu.edu.tw/record/#G0912540171en_US
dc.subject (關鍵詞) 遠距戀愛zh_TW
dc.subject (關鍵詞) 親密關係zh_TW
dc.subject (關鍵詞) 信任zh_TW
dc.subject (關鍵詞) 反思性zh_TW
dc.subject (關鍵詞) 互動zh_TW
dc.title (題名) 遠距戀愛的信任zh_TW
dc.type (資料類型) thesisen
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Bailey, J.(2000). Some Meanings of ‘the Private in Sociological Thought. Sociology, 34(3), 381–401.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Barthes, R.(2002)。戀人絮語(Fragments d`un discours amoureux)(汪耀進、武佩榮譯)。台北:桂冠。(原作出版年1977)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Bauman, Z.(2003). Liquid Love : on the Frailty of Human Bonds. Cambridge:Polity Press.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Bauman, Z.(2003).現代性與矛盾性(Modernity and Ambivalence)(劭迎生譯)。北京:商務。(原作出版年1991)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Beck, U. & Beck-Gernsheim, E.(2000)。愛情的正常性混亂(Das Ganz Normale Chaos der Lieb )(蘇峰山、魏書娥、陳雅馨譯)。台北:立緒。(原作出版年1990)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Beck, U.(2004)。風險社會(Risikogesellschaft )(汪浩譯)。台北:巨流。(原作出版年1986)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Beck, U., Giddens, A. &Lash, S.(2001)。自反性現代化(Reflexive Modernization)(趙文書譯)。北京:商務。(原作出版年1997)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Brittany, S.(2004). The effects of distance on intimacy, passion and commitment in romantic relationships in college students.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) http://www.anselm.edu/internet/psych/theses/2004/shumway/webpage.html#References(2004.09.07檢索)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Certeau, M.D.(1988). The Practice of Everyday Life. CA:University of California Press.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Couch, L.L. & Jones, W.H.(1997). Measuring levels of trust. Journal of Research in Personality,31(3),319-336.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Dainton, M. & Aylor, B.(2001). A Relational Uncertainty Analysis of Jealousy, Trust, and Maintenance in Long-Distance versus Geographically Close Relationships’. Communication Quarterly, 49(2),172-188.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Gerstel, N.& Engel, H. E. (1982).Commuter Marriages: A Review. The Haworth Press.選集zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Giddens, A.(2002)。現代性與自我認同(Modernity and Self-Identity)(趙旭東、方文譯)。台北:左岸。(原作出版年1991)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Giddens, A.(2003)。親密關係的轉變(The Transformation of Intimacy)(周素鳳譯)。台北:巨流。(原作出版年1992)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Giddens, A.(2004)。社會的構成(The Constitution of Society: Outline of the Theory of Structuration)(李康、李猛譯)。台北:左岸。(原作出版年代1984)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Goffman, E.(1959).The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life.New York:Anchor Books.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Goffman, E.(1969). Strategic Interaction. PA:University of Pennsylvania Press.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Goffman, E.(1992)。日常生活中的自我表演(The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life)(徐江敏、李姚軍譯)。台北:桂冠。(原作出版年代1959)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Guldner, G..T.(2004). Long-distance Relationships: The Complete Guide. CA: JFMilne.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Haas, D.F.& Deseran, F.A.(1981). Trust and Symbolic Exchange.Social Psychology Quarterly, 44(1 ),3.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) IlIouz, E.(1999). The Lost Innocence of Love:Romance as a Postmodern Condition. In Featherstone, M.(Ed.), Love and Eroticism(pp.161-186).London:SAGE.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Jamieson, L.(2002)。親密關係—現代社會的私人關係(Personal Relationshiips in Modern Societies)(蔡明璋譯)。台北:群學。(原作出版年1998)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Knox, D., Zusman, M.E., Daniels, V.,& Brantley, A.(2002). Absence makes the heart grow fonder?: Long distance dating relationships among college students. College Student Journal,36(3),364-366.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Larzelere, R.E. &Huston, T. L.(1980). The Dyadic Trust Scale: Toward Understanding Interpersonal Trust in Close Relationships’. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 42(3),595-604.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Lewis, D. & Weiger, A.T.(1985). Trust as a Social Reality. Social Forces, 63(4), 967-985.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Luhmann, N.(1979). Trust and Power. NY:John Wiley & Sons.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Lydon, J., Pierce, T. & O’Regan, S.(1997). Coping with moral commitment to long-distance dating relationships. Journal of personality and social psychology,73 (1),104-113.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) McLuhan, M.(1964). Understanding Media: The Extensions of Man. NY: Ark Paperbacks.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Meyrowitz, J.(2002)。消失的地域:電子媒介對社會行為的影響(No sense of Place )(肖志軍譯)。北京:清華。(原作出版年1985)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Mietzner , S. & Lin, L.W.(2005). Would you do it again? Relationship skills gained in a long-distance relationship. College Student Journal. http://www.24hourscholar.com/p/articles/mi_m0FCR/is_1_39/ai_n13620077(2005.5.17檢索)zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Perez , J.M.(2003). Long Distance Romantic Relationships: Expressing Jealousy Across the Miles. http://sorrel.humboldt.edu/~jgv1/319Web/examples/2003/LongDistanceJealousy.pdf(2005.3.6.檢索)zh_TW
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dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Simmel,G.(1997). The Sociology of Space. In Frisby, D. & Featherstone, M.(Eds.), Simmel on Culture: Selected Writings. London :SAGE.zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Stafford, L. &Reske, J.R.(1990).Idealization and communication in long-distance premarital relationships.Family Relations, 39(3).zh_TW
dc.relation.reference (參考文獻) Sztompka, P. (2005)。信任--一種社會學理論(Trust:A sociological theory)(程勝利譯)。北京:中華。(原作出版年1999)zh_TW
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